BuzzFeed asked people to share their most secret sexual fantasies. Here are their open, honest, and very creative answers. When it comes to sexual fantasies, our minds can go to some weird, creative, and unexpected places. Since a lot of people have fantasies that they would never tell a partner — or even want to carry out in real life — other people's fantasies are pretty much a mystery.
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My name's Jess, I'm in my mid-twenties and it's taken years to embrace my kinks and love for sex. Just remember all the writers have feelings and as these are their real experiences things don't always go like they do in pornography and movies. It gets deep, it gets dark, it gets kinky and it gets weirder than most of the stories you'll read anywhere else online. My boyfriend and I just had a party and invited some friends and it ended with us playing a sex game.
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Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Instead, there remains a bit of a misconception that all of modern erotica is somehow similar to Fifty Shades , with female submissives being the name of the game. Writing erotica has irrevocably changed my life , and has given me new perspectives on my own sexuality as well as those of my fellow human beings. The past decade has seen a boom in women turning to the page to detail sexy stories that would very likely make even Christian Grey blush.
Sexual fantasies are kind of like handbags: no matter how many are hanging in your closet, you usually end up sticking with the same one. Now that I've exhausted that analogy, let me tell you where I'm going with it: So that you and, let's be honest, me can update your fantasy collection, I asked women which fantasies get them to the finish line without fail. Jessica O'Reilly tells Bustle. The most common sexual fantasies , according to one University of Montreal study, are sex in an exciting place, sex with a new partner, and being submissive. That doesn't mean people who think about these things want to do them; it just means they're arousing to imagine.